How do you know? Part III


Ask other people how they define love or know if they love someone.

I got several responses and this is what I heard.

Response 1
I'd say that love is about reaction. How does the sight, sound, and/or touch of a person make you feel? Are there regular moments with in your day that are occupied solely by individual thoughts of this one? Does your existence now include that of comfort and happiness within this persons. How difficult is it to travel back to the state of yourself before meeting this person?

These (I believe) are some questions to ask yourself.

Response 2
I feel that you know you love someone when you think of their needs before you think of your own. Love is more than a feeling. Love is an action word. When you are in love your actions should define your feelings.

Response 3
Love to me is: trusting someone to be faithful, be by your side no matter what, and to always be honest with you. It is being with someone you that makes you a better person, wants you to succeed, is willing to compromise to make your relationship better, and that is your best friend. it is someone you can spend the rest of your life with because although you may not always like them, you do always love them.

These are very honest responses and I can truly say I feel all of them in my relationship.

To be continued...